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If you're concerned about any of these items or want further clarification
it's best to seek advice from a professional.
Remember, this checklist is meant for self-assessment purposes only.
1.Child mentions things from the past that never happened.
2.Over time, observed decreased intimacy between the child and me.
3.Child used to call me "mom" or "dad," but now calls me by my name or "hey."
4.Former spouse or child tells me that my involvement in the child's school affairs upsets the child.
5.Former spouse's past actions are now blamed on me.
6.The time spent with relatives on my side, such as grandparents, and the child is decreasing.
7.Child reduces or stops bringing their friends to my home.
8.When the child is with me, the other parent often calls, emails, or texts.
9.My parenting behavior is increasingly criticized.
10.Child asks if I truly wanted to have them.
11.Child tells me that it was because I betrayed the other parent that caused our divorce.
12.Child knows more and more about legal matters, but not from me.
13.My views, values, and attitudes are increasingly seen as negative.
14.If the former spouse and I do the same thing, the child sees it positively if it's the former spouse but negatively if it's me.
15.Child tells me, or I hear from others, that the child doesn't want to see me too often or at all.
16.When talking about living with the other parent, the child uses "our house" and "my house" terminology.
17.Nothing I do seems right. For example, if I go to places the child enjoys, I am accused of causing stress. But if I don't go, they say I don't care.
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